what guys and girls like.

WHAT BOYS LIKE :

- guys like girls who take good care of themselves. this isn't about model beauty. this is about clean hair, smelling good, exercising. by taking care of yourself, you send out the message that you care about yourself.

- guys like girls who have a life. they like it when you aren't always available. they like to know that if they like you, you aren't going to be needing them all the time.

- guys like girls who have a sense of humor. this is one of the underestimated attributes. let's face it, we all love someone who laughs and knows how to have fun.

- guys like girls who don't try too hard. once again, the message you send when you try too hard is that you're desperate. they want to think that they lucked out by getting you.

- guys like girls who listen to them and find them interesting. don't fake it, but don't try to get a guys if you don't think he is interesting.

- guys like girls who have fun with their girlfriends. they want to know that if they are going to watch the game on Saturday night, you aren't going to fall apart. they like girls who can have a good time without them.

- guys like girls who sincerely like them. so .... instead of thinking, "i want a boyfriend" think, "i am looking forward to meeting a guy i like who likes me back"

What girls like :

- girls like guys who adore them. this is the number one thing for girls. many a girl has fallen in love with a guy after he announces that he likes her. the more you like her the better.

- girls like guys who are strong. they like guys who are confident and give them the feeling that they are safe when they are around them.

- girls like guys who aren't afraid to say sweet things to them.

-girls like guys who don't shy away them when their buddies are around.

- girls like guys who know how to have dun when they are with a girl.

- girls like guys who make them feel special.

- girls like guys who care about their feelings and who aren't afraid to talk about "emotional" stuff.

- girls like guys who are thoughtful, who call just to say hi or goodnight or to see how they are doing.

- girls like guys who are generous. not just with money but in other ways too. they like guys who will able to go out of their way to make them feel comfortable.

- girls like guys who take care of themselves. they like clean hair, nice clothes, and they love a guy who smells good.